hey - same old boring hey. you're not very interesting are you?
heyy - excited to speak with you because were on the same level, indecisive.
hey! - your the greatest thing in the world. dependent.
heys - what i think i'm going to say.

instinctual - hey!

Why is "!" my instinct? Is she truly the greatest thing in the world? What is the greatest thing in the world? I don't know. Probably sex.

I know it's best to let them know they can fail.
anyway,
old supplied thoughts: they might not even respond. hey was probably best. I think i used to do Hey! and than played it off like i didn't really care while speaking.

you can't get hurt less than you are now. you can't be less than 0. it's impossible to stop trying.